Missing the Best Part

Have you ever visited someone for dinner or overnight who is busy doing things the whole time you're there? They may be a wonderful hostess from the standpoint of working hard to serve you and make delicious food preparations but you really wish they would just sit down, drink that second cup of coffee and visit for a while. I have been in homes like that and I often think I am missing the best part which is just to be with them.

A similar thing took place in Luke 10:38-42. It is the familiar account of Jesus visiting Martha and Mary in their home and Martha fretting because Mary was not helping her. Over the years poor Martha has received a lot of criticism. She may have had one of those type "A" personalities whose ducks all have to be in a row. You know the type. Perhaps you are one of them. This is not all bad because this person usually accomplishes quite a bit but when it becomes more important than the relationship it is out of balance.

Perhaps Martha was trying to fix a more elaborate meal than was necessary. Meanwhile, Mary sits at the feet of Jesus fellowshipping with Him. I believe Jesus was tender in His rebuke as He said "Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things." He understood her desire to please Him but she was missing the best part. He then goes on to say "But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her."

Do you allow the things of your day to take precedence over your time spent with Jesus? If we are not mindful of this it is easy to happen. We have so many things to attend to and accomplish today that we neglect "that good part, that cannot be taken away from us." As you prepare to have company in your home be mindful of this as well. Remember, people are coming to spend time with you - not to have an elaborate meal and be showcased in an absolute meticulous home. Let's not miss the best part.